Monday, September 19, 2011

a hungry child can't wait

Guest Blogger: Sarah Lenssen from #Ask5for5
Family photos by Mike Fiechtner Photography
Thank you Kendra at 4boys2girls and nearly 150 other bloggers from around the world for allowing me to share a story with you today, during Social Media Week.
A hungry child in East Africa can’t wait. Her hunger consumes her while we decide ifwe’ll respond and save her life. In Somalia, children are stumbling along for days, even weeks, on dangerous roads and with empty stomachs in search of food and water. Their crops failed for the third year in a row. All their animals died. They lost everything. Thousands are dying along the road before they find help in refugee camps.
At my house, when my three children are hungry, they wait minutes for food, maybe an hour if dinner is approaching. Children affected by the food crisis in in Ethiopia, Kenya, and Somalia aren’t so lucky. Did you know that the worst drought in 60 years is ravaging whole countries right now, as you read this? Famine, a term not used lightly, has been declared in Somalia. This is the world’s first famine in 20 years.12.4 million people are in need of emergency assistance and over 29,000 children have died in the last three months alone. A child is dying every 5 minutes. It it estimated that 750,000 people could die before this famine is over. Take a moment and let that settle in.
The media plays a major role in disasters. They have the power to draw the attention of society to respond–or not. Unfortunately, this horrific disaster has become merely a footnote in most national media outlets. News of the U.S. national debt squabble and the latest celebrity’s baby bump dominate headlines. That is why I am thrilled that nearly 150 bloggers from all over the world are joining together today to use the power of social media to make their own headlines; to share the urgent need of the almost forgotten with their blog readers. Humans have the capacity to care deeply for those who are suffering, but in a situation like this when the numbers are too huge to grasp and the people so far away, we often feel like the little we can do will be a drop in the ocean, and don’t do anything at all.
When news of the famine first hit the news in late July, I selfishly avoided it. I didn’t want to read about it or hear about it because I knew I would feel overwhelmed and uncomfortable. I wanted to protect myself. I knew I would need to do something if I knew what was really happening. You see, this food crisis is personal. I have a 4-year-old son and a 1 yr-old daughter who were adopted from Ethiopia and born in regions now affected by the drought. If my children still lived in their home villages, they would be two of the 12.4 million. My children: extremely hungry and malnourished? Gulp. I think any one of us would do anything we could for our hungry child. But would you do something for another mother’s hungry child?
My friend and World Vision staffer, Jon Warren, was recently in Dadaab Refugee Camp in Kenya–the largest refugee camp in the world with over 400,000 people. He told me the story of Isnino Siyat, 22, a mother who walked for 10 days and nights with her husband, 1 yr-old-baby, Suleiman, and 4 yr.-old son Adan Hussein, fleeing the drought in Somalia. When she arrived at Dadaab, she built the family a shelter with borrowed materials while carrying her baby on her back. Even her dress is borrowed. As she sat in the shelter on her second night in camp she told Jon, “I left because of hunger. It is a very horrible drought which finished both our livestock and our farm.” The family lost their 5 cows and 10 goats one by one over 3 months, as grazing lands dried up. “We don’t have enough food now…our food is finished. I am really worried about the future of my children and myself if the situation continues.”
Will you help a child like Baby Suleiman? Ask5for5 is a dream built upon the belief that you will.
That something I knew I would need to do became a campaign called #Ask5for5 to raise awareness and funds for famine and drought victims. The concept is simple, give $5 and ask five of your friends to give $5, and then they each ask five of their friends to give $5 and so on–in nine generations of 5x5x5…we could raise $2.4 Million! In one month, over 750 people have donated over $25,000! I set up a fundraiser at See Your Impact and 100% of the funds will go to World Vision, an organization that has been fighting hunger in the Horn of Africa for decades and will continue long after this famine has ended. Donations can multiply up to 5 times in impact by government grants tohelp provide emergency food, clean water, agricultural support, healthcare, and other vital assistance to children and families suffering in the Horn.
I need you to help me save lives. It’s so so simple; here’s what you need to do:
  1. Donate $5 or more on this page (http://seeyourimpact.org/members/ask5for5)
  2. Send an email to your friends and ask them to join us.
  3. Share #Ask5for5 on Facebook and Twitter!
I’m looking for another 100 bloggers to share this post on their blogs throughout Social Media Week. Email me at ask5for5@gmail.com if you’re interested in participating this week.
A hungry child doesn’t wait. She doesn’t wait for us to finish the other things on our to-do list, or get to it next month when we might have a little more money to give. She doesn’t wait for us to decide if she’s important enough to deserve a response. She will only wait as long as her weakened little body will hold on…please respond now and help save her life. Ask 5 for 5.
Thank you on behalf of all of those who will be helped–you are saving lives and changing history.
p.s. Please don’t move on to the next website before you donate and email your friends right now. It only takes 5 minutes and just $5, and if you’re life is busy like mine, you probably won’t get back to it later. Let’s not be a generation that ignores hundreds of thousands of starving people, instead let’s leave a legacy of compassion. You have the opportunity to save a life today!

Monday, September 12, 2011

Would you help? ASK5for5 for Africa famine & drought

A malnourished child in an MSF treatment tent in Dolo Ado

dear bloggy friends and facebook friends,
 I have taken it upon myself to ask you if you would join me and over 100 other people to post about this! this is in my heart and i really want to help make a difference! 
it's just one of the little things we can do for others around the world and it just takes a few minutes! 
are you with me? 
let me know and i will get the info for you.  
read this message from my friend sarah who started this campaign:
:
Calling all bloggers! I am going to be guest posting on 100+ blogs next Monday for Ask5for5, and am looking for many more. If you have a blog, or read a blog(s), would you kindly allow me to guest post about the plight of those suffering from drought and famine in East Africa or ask your favorite blogger to let me? I will provide all of the content, and you just cut and paste!

it's THAT simple.
we get you the info and you paste into a new post. 
that's it. 
and you save. 
save lives.

Friday, August 26, 2011

some more fun before school begins.......a new season

THE FAIR

a first for our ethiopian girl and a favorite of our boys. we spend most of our time at the FREE stuff and one night with a handful of ride tickets. we always make the best of it, and we're all tuckered out when it's over.

aregash's first time

her first ride.....she would have been riding the big-boy rides if she was able too!

cole doesn't particularly care for rides--but he CHOSE this one

these are my dare-devils.....zach & luke with their friend pacey on the yo-yo

cole gave in and indulged his little sister---"as long as we don't spin", he says.

THE LAKE

we have been to many different lakes this summer--all within an hour or so from home.  i love this time soaking up the vitamin d and watching my kids enjoy themselves just playing....no talk of video games or ipods, etc. just plain. simple.fun.

taking a break--he's pretty handsome

lots of friends to make sand-thingys  :0)

always busy look'n cute

a chat with friends, reese and kiera

having fun together after the friends have gone--burying cole

i can't believe how he's grown--and has the voice change to prove it --he'll be 13 next week!!

grouchy.....playing

love that boy!!


a perfect way to end the summer............even though it's not the end of the fun to be had.


Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Come to a Shower......Save a Life!!!


This is Shonda from God Will Add.  Kendra has kindly let me take over her blog to tell you about an awesome Baby Shower like none other.  A couple of my friends have teamed up and we're trying to raise funds for an organization called FOVC.  They help provide aid and hope to the immediate areas where our kiddos are from, an area that has been hit hard by this horrible famine.

Shameless plug:  Will you hop on over to my shower?  I promise I won't make you smell mystery diapers and  no I won't let you wrap toilet paper around my abdomen.

For $13 FOVC can feed one starving child for one month.  So far, this shower has raised $710.  If you're amazing at math like myself, you know that 54 kids who didn't have food today, will have food tomorrow and for the next month because of the generosity of a select few.  Wow!  Can we make it 100 kids?  Will you please help me spread the word? 



Why? 
Of all the great charities out there, why have I chose to rally behind FOVC?  A few simple reasons:

1) There are a lot of other great charities that are working to fight this famine, and I (despite my cynicism of big organizations) have supported them.  But FOVC is the only NGO working directly in the areas my boys are from, and where their first families still live.  Even if I liked nothing else about FOVC, this one simple fact would make me want to support them.  Thankfully, there are lots of other things I like about them:

2) They are a very small grassroots organization and very conservative with their money.  All their workers are volunteers, and they do all their traveling on their own dime, which means all the money we give goes directly to feeding the kids and helping their community fight poverty with long-term goals in mind.

3) I have a close friend who has done aid work with them in Ethiopia (and is on her way back in a few weeks), knows many personal details about how they operate and spend their money.  She's a Dave Ramsey fiscal conservative like myself, and she fully endorses them.  They have an independent bookkeeper who verifies that over 96% of the funds go directly to Ethiopia.

4) Directly from the president of FOVC:  "We have an amazing team of volunteers! Our board members and officers (if I do say so myself) are doing outstanding work! We spend a lot of time and effort educating ourselves on best practices of economic development (it's what my husband does!) and strive to implement every program using best practices. This means we empower, not enable. Every effort we undertake is aimed at offering long-term sustainability, success...and HOPE

Have I convinced you they're great?


And then (this part is optional), click here and tell MB how excited you are about his arrival into our family.



Wednesday, August 17, 2011

we tried a new camping spot this time...with just our family of six. 
 it was in the black hills 
and closer to home than we usually go. 
we needed a little get away 
to just relax and enjoy each other.

they really aren't as miserable as they look! :0)

aregash's first time cooking hot dogs over a fire.....or maybe her 2nd,
but first time noted. :0)

should be on an oscar meyer package....even when we don't eat that kind!

heading down to the lake for the day--mommy armed with camera....
and then the bugs made a noise--
you shoulda seen her run!!

i love getting to be a part of the fun--i'm usually on the side-line. love it!


afraid of nothing......and first for being buried on the beach.

the summer is quickly slipping away 
and we hope to do this at least 2 or 3 more times 
before the cold sets in.
a family favorite.
love my family.
love it.

Thursday, August 4, 2011

6 months HOME


this little child 
has blessed our home 
for the last 6 months.
we are soo in love.

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

mama's happy

Dic had to go across the state for work and Zach needed to be in the same town for a baseball tourney...
so we ALL went along. 
 It was GREAT fun!

at Falls Park in Sioux Falls, SD

cute as a button..as always
We went with another adoptive family to eat at an ethiopian restaurant--
we don't have anything even resembling ethiopia in our town.
sad.

the sample platter

there were things like beef tibs, lamb, goat cheese, collard greens, potatoes, carrots. 
 it was delicious and the boys loved it too.  
aregash was in. heaven!!!

they even had the yummy fanta-soda-drink

at one point some ethiopian men came over to speak with aregash.  
they told us several times how grateful they were that we brought her here and gave her a loving family.  
it was such a beautiful few minutes 
with people from her country. 
you never really know just how people feel when they see their children leaving their homeland. 
we told them what we tell everyone........
WE are the blessed ones--
that their country has blessed us with it's children. 
that this little one has been the blessing to us.  
my heart melted.

she was ECSTATIC that she got to eat her Ethiopian cuisine--
this is what the injera is typically served on and everyone gathers around to eat, but we had to many people. the owner asked aregash a question in amharic and she answered(in english). my eyes welled up with tears...so did hers.



FUN
at the water park--gotta love those lines :0)


this would be the mommy trying to be cool.  
turns out the kids already thought i was cool--
shoulda 
just 
stayed 
in 
the 
pool. 
ha!



BASEBALL
Zach's team WON the championship game!!! Woo Hoo!!
the champions of the 10-year-old division.
and our LAST game of the season!!!!
Yay!
Yay!!

coach and son giv'n some "bumps"
some badly needed time away with family 
helped to soften this mamas heart. 
 gotta 
love 
those 
times.


and then at the end of the trip.....
 i still have 
this



and this


and this



mama's happy :0)

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

feeling frazzled

we are leaving at 1:00 today, when my hubby gets off work, for another baseball tournament (our first one to travel for) on the other side of the state.  we just got back from camping on sunday eve. and i have yet to pack the clean blankets, etc, back in the camper.....my house is a mess, i'm not packed and haven't finished packing the kids, and i have A LOT on my mind. but THIS is what i should be focusing on.............


there is something i can't get out of my mind.....somebody stepped on my toes......someone questioned what my family is about......but in an indirect, non-intentional (i am hoping) way.  and i flipped out a little bit.  i usually do that on the inside, but i don't usually take things this far.  my heart is starting to thaw and i am feeling regrets and i don't know exactly what to do about it.  i give grace. i forgive.  but sometimes i also think we just have to let go and move on.  so why can't i?  
that's the first thing.............
and i've been stewing about it for a week now. :0(


then there's THIS.....................
my beauty.
our getaway mobile.
the thing i originally hated.
but now i love her. 
cause i made her look like this...................


and this........


and this.......


and she didn't use to look like this.................


she is my project.
and i love her (in case i didn't mention that before). :0)
but we have a chance to buy our friends' camper that has 4 bunk-beds......
just what we need.
but i love her.
and i can't decide.
ugh!
and the price just doesn't seem realistic when i see what she's become.
so...............
does she stay?
or does she go?
i have people ready to grab on.
i just don't know.
and i realize there are people with bigger problems. 
wayyyyyyy bigger problems.
 i hate to dwell.
and i should be focusing on THIS.........


did i mention that as soon as we return on sunday, my oldest, coley boy, is going on his first trip without mom and dad to a teen church camp?
that's a weight for me too.
thanks for letting me get that off my chest
.
now to get packing.

and hoping to feel less frazzled once we're on the road and i'm  with all of the things
 i SHOULD 
be 
focusing
 on.


Tuesday, July 26, 2011

her first time camping

 more firsts for aregash--she was sooo excited to sleep in the camper, which sets just outside our garage all year long--she hadn't even stepped foot in it until this weekend. 
fun times. 
good thing she got her chance as we are selling it. 
this mommy's a little lot sad about it. 
i'll have a photo session to say goodbye real soon.

i love this picture--all polka-dotty! this is our bedroom in our camper--movie time :0)
1st boat ride--she loved it

such a water buff
holding her first toad--kinda surprised about this one

just do'n her thing...which is always pretty dang cute

mommy's birthday (and aregash's first time celebrating it with me!!) at the campground

camping is my all-time favorite thing.  
a time to be with family. 
a time to be with friends.  
a time to get away from the real world.  
if i could do it every weekend, 
i would.

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